EPISODE 483
Marcus
Transformative Masculinity

Men's well-being depends on genuine connection. Safe spaces for genuine self-expression are crucial in combating depression, anxiety, and suicide risk. Body-centered practices like mindfulness and bodywork often surpass traditional therapy in helping men process emotions. A healthy masculinity balances strength with emotional openness. Cultivating both assertiveness and vulnerability fosters better relationships and self-awareness. Holistic approaches addressing physical, emotional, and social well-being are key to stress management and personal growth.

Marcus
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Owen Marcus, founder of MELD (Men’s Emotional Leadership Development), is a pioneer in men’s emotional wellness with nearly 30 years of experience. Since establishing his first men’s group in 1995, Owen has been transforming men’s lives through innovative group dynamics and emotional awareness techniques. His groundbreaking work has garnered national attention, featuring in the New York Times, ABC News, TEDx, and NPR, and has been embraced by corporations like Google.

Owen’s book “Grow Up” offers a comprehensive guide to authentic living, distilling his extensive experience in empowering men to embrace their strengths, achieve success, and live with joy and fulfillment. His expertise spans corporate management, Mindfulness Stress Reduction seminars, and integrated medicine. Owen’s methods have positively impacted thousands of men, and his 9-month certification program has trained therapists, coaches, and executives in his transformative techniques. Through MELD, Owen continues to innovate and expand his mission of fostering emotional leadership in men. 

“We have a schism in masculinity. On one side, we got the macho hyper-masculine, and then on the other side, we have the hypo masculine, sensitive guy.” – Owen Marcus

  • Men Need Connection: Both speakers emphasize that many men suffer from disconnection – from themselves, others, nature, and spirituality. This disconnection is the root cause of many issues, including mental health problems and suicide. Creating safe spaces for men to connect authentically with themselves and others is crucial for their overall well-being.
  • Use Somatic Awareness to Access Emotions: Engage with your body to process emotions more effectively. Practices like mindfulness, bodywork, and physiological awareness can often reach deeper than traditional talk therapy for men.
  • Redefining masculinity to include vulnerability: A new model of masculinity that integrates traditional “tough” qualities with emotional intelligence and vulnerability is imperative. Owen introduces the concept of “assertive vulnerability” as a way to balance these seemingly opposing traits.
  • Holistic Practices for Stress Management and Personal Growth: Mark and Owen discuss various practices for managing stress and promoting personal growth, including mindfulness, time in nature, bodywork, and even medical interventions like the stellate ganglion block. They emphasize the importance of addressing health from multiple angles – physical, emotional, and social.

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03:38 Owen’s journey into men’s work

05:38 The MELD method for men’s groups

10:37 Somatic approaches to help men open up

18:51 The MELD process and creating safety in men’s groups

21:10 Current cultural issues facing men

24:27 Benefits of men coming together in groups

28:06 Helping men connect to their emotions through physiology

31:34 Owen’s personal practices for staying connected and grounded

38:36 Rolfing and bodywork

44:45 EMDR and stellate ganglion block for trauma treatment

47:05 Reframing vulnerability 

50:13 Balancing sensitivity and assertiveness in masculinity

52:20 Testosterone’s role in men’s behavior and health

54:20 Addressing male suicide risk and prevention

57:07 Where to learn more about MELD network

58:23 Closing 

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